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		<title>How can I get more traffic?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 22:15:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Don Dalrymple</dc:creator>
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“How can I get more traffic?” is the number one question we are most often asked right next to, “How much will that cost?”.
The question at the outset poses a big assumption and problem, the assumption that what you’ve built is worthy of attention and therefore traffic. The question more appropriately asked should be, “How [...]]]></description>
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<p>“How can I get more traffic?” is the number one question we are most often asked right next to, “How much will that cost?”.</p>
<p>The question at the outset poses a big assumption and problem, the assumption that what you’ve built is worthy of attention and therefore traffic. The question more appropriately asked should be, “How can I earn more traffic?”</p>
<p>Getting traffic is easy, getting attention from the right person requires talent and continually reinventing. This causes every business owner to stay awake at night because what was remarkable yesterday can become boring tomorrow. Status quo is obsolete and never to return. If you are boring it is easier for your customer to move on to the next vendor with as little as a click of a button. So how do you get more traffic? Build something that attracts people to want to see it and never think you’ve arrived.</p></div>
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		<title>Barriers To Execution</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 01:21:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Don Dalrymple</dc:creator>
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It is difficult today to focus and execute. I like what I heard from a client the other day, “We like working with AscendWorks. While others talk, you guys do. We need more doers, not talkers.” I thought that captured a great essence on what can easily differentiate those who thrive in the new [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: 'Lucida Grande', verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"> </span></p>
<p><a href="http://success.ascendworks.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/barriers310.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-859" title="barriers310" src="http://success.ascendworks.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/barriers310.jpg" alt="barriers310" width="310" height="193" /></a>It is difficult today to focus and execute. I like what I heard from a client the other day, “We like working with AscendWorks. While others talk, you guys do. We need more doers, not talkers.” I thought that captured a great essence on what can easily differentiate those who thrive in the new economy and I was grateful to hear the compliment.</p>
<p>Any accomplishment requires action. Action that is not focused and strategic is just busyness. If you are in the busy business today, you are becoming irrelevant. Our patience and attention are too short compared to previous decades. If you want to be in the execution business in order to become more valuable and attractive, focus on the following:</p>
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<li><strong>Purge</strong>: Get rid of anything that is not useful. This includes emails, tools, gadgets, software, etc. Anything extra has to be managed by your mind and attention. It clutters your brain and detracts from execution.</li>
<li><strong>Focus On Readiness</strong>: You cannot plan perfectly. You just know that there are customers to react to and problems to solve. They are coming more unpredictably and with intensity today because of how easy it is to push work onto each other. There is less friction involved in our communications, thus we have more things to pay attention to. It is best to set yourself up to be ready for the 200 emails, 5 emergencies and 8 crises this week.</li>
<li><strong>Think Action</strong>: As a knowledge worker, your job is to turn information into action. It is going from the conceptual to the concrete. When I was in grad school, I learned a lot about transforms – taking a complex equation and transforming it into another form to make problem solver easier. You must work hard at transforming complex problems into simple actions. Practice and pay attention. The opportunity is there every day.</li>
<li><strong>Minimize Noise, Maximize Signal</strong>: There are important pieces to getting results and there are irrelevant pieces. It’s likely that 10% of your customers create too many problems. Dismiss them. There are likely businesses to get out of or products to discontinue. Get candid with yourself and call noise what it is and get rid of it in your work and life. It will align you to what is important.</li>
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<p>See how many people recognize you or your team as getting things done. Being known for execution is one of the highest value pieces to play today. Aligning teams towards this end is a difficult challenge, but a necessary one in order to remain relevant. You will either be labeled a talker or doer. Your ability to apply these pieces will determine your value.</p>
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		<title>9 to 5 is for People Who Hate Their Job</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 01:17:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeff Payne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I get the unrestricted freedom to test ideas on a daily basis. Some of what I do is an art form and some of it is just hard work, all learned through trial and error, experimentation and experience. I have diligently studied and learned how people buy, what people actually click on, how deep the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><span style="font-family: 'Lucida Grande', verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><a href="http://success.ascendworks.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/9to5_310.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-864" title="9to5_310" src="http://success.ascendworks.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/9to5_310.jpg" alt="9to5_310" width="310" height="193" /></a>I get the unrestricted freedom to test ideas on a daily basis. Some of what I do is an art form and some of it is just hard work, all learned through trial and error, experimentation and experience. I have diligently studied and learned how people buy, what people actually click on, how deep the interactions are, if readers share it, and if people use and apply the information. I have invested thousands of hours learning, applying, failing, reinventing, pursuing excellence and finding that “one” thing that matters.</span></div>
<div><span style="font-family: 'Lucida Grande', verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"> </span></div>
<div><span style="font-family: 'Lucida Grande', verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"> </span><span style="font-family: 'Lucida Grande', verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">I realize most people will not invest the time and effort to do what I have done. That is exactly why it’s a huge opportunity for you, if you are someone who cares about developing your personal brand and creating a reputation for yourself. </span><span style="font-family: 'Lucida Grande', verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">I’ll be honest though, most people do only what it takes to get by and that’s it. That’s what I observe every day. But I believe the problem is much deeper. The problem is they really do not love what they do.</span></div>
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Nine to five is for people who hate their job. If you love what you do, you get excited about the goal and you invest your time passionately for hours on end to attain your goal. If you&#8217;re not excited, you pass it off to not having enough time. If that is you, stop wasting your life and move on to doing something you’re passionate about.</span></div>
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		<title>Stopping the Insanity</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 05:57:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Don Dalrymple</dc:creator>
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After thousands of hours of consulting with clients, I am convinced. Most people and organizations continue with insanity. They do the repeatedly ineffective things and expect a different result. They keep saying silly things like, “I need more sales.” and “I want more customers” without thinking through why a person buys. They are thinking about [...]]]></description>
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<p>After thousands of hours of consulting with clients, I am convinced. Most people and organizations continue with insanity. They do the repeatedly ineffective things and expect a different result. They keep saying silly things like, “I need more sales.” and “I want more customers” without thinking through why a person buys. They are thinking about how they can sell. Perhaps narcissism has ruled our lives so thoroughly that the disease blinds us. They are not thinking about the customer, the process, the experience and the logic for how a buyer buys.</p>
<p>It is a truly human condition. It takes people of character, humility and candor to be able to rise above the insanity. Of course everyone wants more customers. Of course everyone wants to be an overnight success. Insisting on this in a world of too many choices is insane. It is much like talking with a child who insists on having what they want and being completely oblivious to the responsibilities adults and caretakers think through.</p>
<p>You are likely in a place which could be better. You wish you had more customers or you wish you had different customers. Reality has a way of denying your wish until you understand how life works. Your business is subject to laws which transcend any juvenile insistence and rants for more when you have not paid the price. Here is how life and business work:</p>
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<li><strong>There Is A Price To Pay:</strong> While you are busy trying to find a way around the work, the expense or the time, your competitor who pays the price gets ahead. They don’t circumvent. They go through that door of opportunity and reap the rewards via hard work, persistence and sacrifice. It is how success happens.</li>
<li><strong>Not Everyone Is Talented:</strong> If you surround yourself with sub-par people, guess what the result will be. Teams that are not talented do not win championships. Being on such a team is demoralizing. If you will hold a high standard of performance and deliverance for yourself and those around you, the ball moves forward.</li>
<li><strong>Creativity Is Critical:</strong> We have seen it all. Seeing it a second time is boring. We are not interested in boring. If you want to be like every other attorney, Realtor, salesperson, financial advisor, and the myriad of other types of people in your field, you lose. Nothing stands out. The lack of risk and the promotion of convention only blends you in in the eyes of the buyer. Push the envelope and expand your guild, practice or industry. Those are the winners today. The buyers are voting this way.</li>
<li><strong>Execution Is A Premium:</strong> We are continually hired and retained as a consulting team not just for ideas, but because of execution. There are a lot of idea people out there who feel important because of jargon. Show me people who can cut through the clutter, identify what is of importance and deliver. Execution takes work and focus coupled with passion. Everyone else is a talking head without feet and hands to make dreams happen.</li>
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<p>Some people feel more comfortable in the coma. They don’t have to wake up and engage reality. I feel sorry for them. Their life is predictable, scripted and destined for insignificance. Markets, change and speed overtake them.</p>
<p>If you are able to stop the insanity, the very things that are not and will not work in your business and life, then you can engage the opportunities the new economy affords anyone who is willing to see with clear eyes and act. Tricking people or hoping in good things is not enough. Too many people and companies have access to the same tools, social media and resources. It’s not a time for gimmicks. It’s a time for substance which will reap the rewards fairly due for those who will pay the price and implement the systems towards change. How about stopping the insanity and getting real? It’s how winning is done today.</p></div>
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		<title>A Bowl of Soup</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2009 16:15:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Don Dalrymple</dc:creator>
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As a business advisor, the story I am going to share with you is one that I see more often than not. There is a story in the Book of Genesis about two brothers – Esau and Jacob. Though they are twins, Esau was the firstborn allowing him the full benefits of the “birth-right,” therein. In [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://success.ascendworks.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/soup310.jpg"></a>As a business advisor, the story I am going to share with you is one that I see more often than not. There is a story in the <em>Book of Genesis</em> about two brothers – Esau and Jacob. Though they are twins, Esau was the firstborn allowing him the full benefits of the “birth-right,” therein. In a sense, he had a built-in trust fund waiting to inherit.</p>
<p>Their family had learned to be cunning in their dealings. Jacob learned this skill as well. The story is told that one day when Esau came back from hunting, he was famished and tired. He asked his brother Jacob to relieve his hunger. Seeing Esau’s predicament, Jacob cut a business deal. Esau gave up his birthright for one bowl of soup. He was so focused on his present pain that he could not see value in something far off.</p>
<p>Later, Jacob deceived his own father and received a blessing under disguise as Esau. He received blessings while Esau received curses.</p>
<p>The story is told with a commendation of Jacob’s behaviors. I like Jacob for his ability to see value and pursue it. His methods are questionable; however, he is admirable because he risked everything he had to get what was valuable. He paid a price for the value he sought. It was value that was beyond any instant gratification.</p>
<p>We are around Esau people every day. They would go for the bowl of soup. They are near-sighted. They have a hard time paying a price. It is easy to win against such people. Just pay a price they will not. Working harder, gaining more knowledge, and spending more money are hard for cost-conscience people. They ask how little they can give for a dollar rather than how much. Business becomes about them, not you. Cost gets in the way.</p>
<p>It is obvious why so many business people fail. They are not willing or able to pay a price. They can only focus on what is in front of them and don’t truly go after what they want. They expect everyone around them to pay. They believe business works by investing as little as possible and expecting to get as much as possible at the cost of others.</p>
<p>Today is a great time to separate yourself from people who lack vision and passion and move into opportunities where the value players exist. Think about how you play the game of making money. If your mindset is always focused on cost, then watch out. You are always exposed. The guy who is willing to pay a price you are not will displace you. You may be good at spending other people’s money or using other people’s time, but that is because you can only think about the soup.</p>
<p>If your mindset, however, is to persevere, work harder than the next guy and pay a price, then the opportunities are abundant. Most people do not go the extra mile, much less the extra foot. The story of Esau later comments that his pathetic business transaction resulted in remorse and tears, yet he could change nothing though he desperately tried.</p>
<p>Pay a price. Learn to pay all the time. You will be developing the habits of winning in whatever endeavor you pursue. Peter Drucker reminds people, “Whenever you see a successful business, someone once made a courageous decision.” Your good fortune may only be because someone else paid a price. Learn to pay a price and you will be finding the missed fortunes the short-sighted people around you cannot step into.</p>
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		<title>Fake It Till You Make It</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2009 16:03:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeff Payne</dc:creator>
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I want to thank Tabitha Woods, a friend who recently gave me a very nice gift, a signed copy of the book, Who’s Got Your Back by Keith Ferrazzi. She knows I love books, and I was very grateful for her generosity and the effort she went through to have it signed and personalized by Keith [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://success.ascendworks.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/fakitit310.jpg"></a>I want to thank Tabitha Woods, a friend who recently gave me a very nice gift, a signed copy of the book, <em>Who’s Got Your Back</em> by Keith Ferrazzi. She knows I love books, and I was very grateful for her generosity and the effort she went through to have it signed and personalized by Keith for me. In his book, Keith takes an entire chapter to devote to the subject of faking it until you make it.</p>
<p>He tells of once hearing a radio interview with Ray Charles who said he didn’t know of a single musician who was any good who didn’t practice every day. Practice is simply a part of a great musician’s life, like breathing.</p>
<p>Have you ever known anyone who was born playing the piano or clarinet? Aren’t the first, second, third, fourth, fifth and many future attempts awkward and terrible? But successful musicians keep at it for <span class="caps">YEARS</span> as they get better, and eventually master their instruments. Not avoiding failure or continuing mistakes, they just keep playing.</p>
<p>In my experience in business most people either are <strong>lazy</strong>, <strong>cheap</strong> or <strong>fear failure</strong> and as a result accept mediocrity. They generally are in search of immediate gratification and want results now. We all want results now. The difference is whether we are wishfully thinking or determined to overcome any obstacle that gets in our way and press forward relentlessly.</p>
<p>Faking it until you make it has nothing to do with being a phony. Faking it until you make is as Keith Ferrazzi puts it, <strong>“changing your behavior with the support of others even if you aren’t ready to change your beliefs.”</strong></p>
<p>“Fake it till you make it is one version of what is sometimes called self-fulfilling prophecy.” We can create negative or positive self-fulfilling prophecies. A shy person can pretend to be outgoing, experience how that feels, and as a result, over time, become a friendlier, more outgoing person.</p>
<p>You could decide to be the expert in your profession. It’s hard work; just apply 10,000 hours to the subject. It begins by <strong>relentlessly</strong> reading everything you can get your hands on in relation to your pursuit, studying, practicing, and applying what you have learned you will become the expert. A good book to begin with is <em>Love Is The Killer App</em> which Tim Sanders teaches how to invest those hours that you read. Also check out our own zeroinbox.com and learn how to get your runway clear so that you can begin thinking. Most people are unprepared to think, their business and life is cluttered.</p>
<p>Think about it, how many experts do you know? It is likely you know very few. Most are just going through the motions always intent on someday making it happen. What about you? Are you daily doing what it takes, or are you just pretending and playing the game like most of your peers?</p>
<p>Share below where you are at with your 10,000 hours. If you are just starting, congratulations, let the journey begin, let us know that too.</p>
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		<title>What If</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2009 07:44:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Don Dalrymple</dc:creator>
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Many businesses and workers are facing times of uncertainty. The business climate today is a testing ground for ideas. We all ask ourselves the key question which triggers any forward movement or holds us back from opportunities. We ask ourselves, &#8220;What if&#8230;?&#8221; Your thoughts will reveal whether you do business as a cynic or a [...]]]></description>
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<p>Many businesses and workers are facing times of uncertainty. The business climate today is a testing ground for ideas. We all ask ourselves the key question which triggers any forward movement or holds us back from opportunities. We ask ourselves, &#8220;What if&#8230;?&#8221; Your thoughts will reveal whether you do business as a cynic or a winner.</p>
<p>You might be asking yourself questions that are focused on problems:</p>
<ul>
<li>What if I can&#8217;t find another job?</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li> What if I am not good enough?</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li> What if my luck in this business I found runs out fast?</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li> What if my idea fails?</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li> What if I keep losing customers?</li>
</ul>
<p>It&#8217;s easy to think like a cynic. It&#8217;s the lazy way to exist. It takes zero creativity. If you believe business will be done the same way as it always has been, then your strategy to doing business relies heavily on hope, which is a poor strategy. The world around you changes fast. The rules keep changing. Your challenge today is far different than what the old economy required.</p>
<p>We need less good boys and girls and more creative trailblazers. You have all the tools and resources you need to be successful. But you must ask the right, &#8220;What if?&#8221; questions. Take note of the ideas that abound.</p>
<p>Here are the thinking patterns of the winners I enjoy collaborating with in business:</p>
<ul>
<li>What if we can make it easier and simpler?</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>What if I invested in my business further?</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li> What if we could find a new market for what we can do?</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li> What if younger people have the answers?</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li> What if we could stop making chaos an excuse for not executing?</li>
</ul>
<p>Playing to win requires a fully engaged mind. The exhilaration of creating and problem solving is risky, but rewarding. Asking the right set of &#8220;What if&#8221; questions and implementing new ideas will put you in the middle of the game of prosperity and opportunity. Align your thinking, yourself,and your company to this habit of creativity and problem solving.</p>
<p><a href="http://success.ascendworks.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/zeroinbox.gif"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-785" title="zeroinbox" src="http://success.ascendworks.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/zeroinbox.gif" alt="zeroinbox" width="354" height="63" /></a>Here&#8217;s a parting question, <strong>&#8220;What if you became a better knowledge worker?&#8221;</strong> Would this be more valuable for your customers, and in turn, help grow your business? An intentional response to that question may change your reality quickly. Go to <strong><a href="http://zeroinbox.com" target="_blank">zeroinbox.com</a></strong> to take a next step.</p>
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		<title>Are You A Dummy?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2009 07:25:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Don Dalrymple</dc:creator>
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&#8220;There&#8217;s plenty of money out there.  They print more every day.  But this ticket&#8230;there are only five of them in the whole world.  That&#8217;s all there&#8217;s ever going to be.  Only a dummy would give this up for something as common as money.  Are you a dummy?&#8221; &#8211; Charlie Bucket&#8217;s grandpa in Charlie And The Chocolate [...]]]></description>
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<blockquote><p>&#8220;There&#8217;s plenty of money out there.  They print more every day.  But this ticket&#8230;there are only five of them in the whole world.  That&#8217;s all there&#8217;s ever going to be.  Only a dummy would give this up for something as common as money.  Are <em>you</em> a dummy?&#8221; &#8211; Charlie Bucket&#8217;s grandpa in <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Charlie-Chocolate-Factory-Widescreen-Johnny/dp/B000BB1MI2/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=dvd&amp;qid=1241721904&amp;sr=8-1"><strong><em>Charlie And The Chocolate Factory</em></strong></a><strong><em> </em></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>I watched this scene with my children, and it is a topic we discuss frequently in our home.  I want my little ones to learn it so that they understand the secret to business and success without having to unlearn bad thinking habits built by fear and greed.  Charlie&#8217;s Grandpa understood the secret. What is truly valuable is more important than money.</p>
<p>As businesses are forced to redefine themselves and employees are looking for jobs, they are too often focused on the wrong thing.  Finding money is not the issue.  Defining value &#8211; why you are valuable &#8211; is difficult.  Money comes and goes.  Value is what creates the money in the first place.  Fear and greed blind us from focusing on the right thing.  Admitting that you are fearful or greedy, well, that is often elusive for the guilty.</p>
<p>Your ability to increase your wealth and success is directly proportional to what Richard Feynman stated, &#8220;The first principle is that you must not fool yourself, and you are the easiest person to fool.&#8221;  Your business can always be better.  You can always be better.  However, if you are a dummy, it may be hard to change when everything around you demands it.  Old ways of doing business miss the customer.</p>
<p>Ironically, we get a vivid illustration of why Charlie Bucket chose right in the story of visiting Willy Wonka&#8217;s fabled factory.  Here are a few reasons:</p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Seeing The Secrets:</strong> The Wonka factory expanded his vision and helped him see possibilities.  If he had have just traded his ticket for $500, he would still be a person with small vision and some money that gets spent quickly.  Vision is a powerful thing that creates the realities that give us security, enjoyment and happiness.  Get in the vision business, and create your own reality.  Focus only on money, and there&#8217;s only the next dollar to look forward to.</li>
<li><strong>Benefits Thinking:</strong> It&#8217;s easy to beat most people in business.  Just put a cost in front of them.  Most people are focused on cost.  They want something for nothing.  They angle, object and maneuver towards this goal.  Accessing how value is delivered is extremely valuable.  All the raw materials the factory had were able to be purchased by anyone. Seeing how they work together for a predictable experience and exceptional product is what separates successful enterprises from failed ones.</li>
<li><strong>Get In Front Of Luck:</strong> The value of meeting a person who could change his life was what brought prosperity for Charlie and his family.  What if you keep missing opportunity because you don&#8217;t see the people who could change your life in the right frame of mind? Get lucky and realize it is the way you connect with people that will make the difference.</li>
<li><strong>Experience Transcends</strong>:  Charlie got to see that Wonka was not about chocolate.  The chocolate was just the deliverable.  He created a surreal experience that made people wonder and want what he had.  A business focusing only on the deliverable without the experience is facing a half-life where the customer gets to choose.  They will choose the experience when all else appears as parity.</li>
</ol>
<p>Next time you ask,<strong> &#8220;What does it cost?&#8221;</strong> stop and think about Charlie and his Grandpa.  What leads you to the question in the first place?  That very question may be blinding you to the opportunities that abound.  The intangibles and the knowledge you would gain from both failures and successes builds the value you deliver.  Today, more than ever, desperate people will lose.  Those who step to the plate and figure out how to become more valuable and build more value are gaining access to new opportunities, customers and inheritances.  <strong>Don&#8217;t be a dummy.</strong></p>
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		<title>The Silver Bullet</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2009 06:46:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeff Payne</dc:creator>
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I grew up as a young boy and teenager watching episodes of I Love Lucy. In a very old episode, Ricky comes home and finds Lucy on her hands and knees crawling around the living room floor. When Ricky asks her what she&#8217;s doing, she explains that she lost her earrings. Ricky asks, &#8220;You lost [...]]]></description>
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<p>I grew up as a young boy and teenager watching episodes of <em>I Love Lucy</em>. In a very old episode, Ricky comes home and finds Lucy on her hands and knees crawling around the living room floor. When Ricky asks her what she&#8217;s doing, she explains that she lost her earrings. Ricky asks, &#8220;You lost your earrings in the living room?&#8221; Lucy replies, &#8220;No, I lost my earrings in the bedroom &#8212; but the light is so much better out here!&#8221;</p>
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<div>That statement is definitely full of sarcasm but offers some truth. For many business owners the best light is in the areas of doing business like they&#8217;ve always done business. They use the same outdated, boring marketing methods that don&#8217;t work, but they console themselves about the effort and try not to think about the results. Their business processes are dull and outdated, but they are processes that once worked! Their website does a good enough job &#8212; whatever that means! They call lunch work &#8212; after all, they gave out several business cards and presented a fabulous 30 second speech about what they do at the weekly &#8220;networking&#8221; luncheon (or breakfast) that garnered several chuckles but again no business, just busy activity.</p>
<p>You see, these approaches are much more comfortable and safe rather than exposing yourself to what is really happening in business. New economy methods are rapidly changing how business is done. The baby boomers, which I am one of them, for the vast majority don&#8217;t get it. They move slower and feel like they&#8217;ve waited their turn in line, only to find out there isn&#8217;t a line anymore! The gold watch and pension are gone!</p>
<p>If you are one that is left behind, rather than being distracted by your current realities, overcome them. What if&#8230;</p></div>
<blockquote>
<ul>
<li>your business systems were automated?</li>
<li>your customer could do business with you 24/7 and feel wowed?</li>
<li>you had a consistent flow of leads due to new economy ways of connecting with your customers?</li>
<li>you added real consistent value to your own network without gimmicks and interruptions?</li>
<li>you had not just a selling process but a buying process &#8212; and both were automated and in sync with each other?</li>
<li>you knew who was following your &#8220;breadcrumb trail&#8221; which helped them to say yes without you having to sell?</li>
</ul>
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<p>So what is holding you back? Are you looking for that silver bullet? If so, it&#8217;s not there. Today&#8217;s new economy requires new methods, new thinking, and quick action.</p>
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		<title>Working Backwards</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2009 08:19:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Don Dalrymple</dc:creator>
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The difference between purpose and aimlessness or the contrast between validity and irrelevance can be easily blurred by a rampant problem among people &#8211; not thinking.  I had a rich conversation with 84 year old Helen Paul.  She was a true joy to speak with as she shared her life and how she grew up. [...]]]></description>
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<div>The difference between purpose and aimlessness or the contrast between validity and irrelevance can be easily blurred by a rampant problem among people &#8211; not thinking.  I had a rich conversation with 84 year old Helen Paul.  She was a true joy to speak with as she shared her life and how she grew up.  She raised a family and lived her life the best she could.  It is hard for her to make sense of the world today, but she is fully sensible.  I would say she is much more astute than most 30 year olds I know for certain.</div>
<div>Because trust was built between us and she could sense that I had respect for her as a person, she became vulnerable with me.  Helen wanted to make sense of the world, and I explained how it works.  In her time, having a college degree correlated with success.  A title, credentials and appearance were all attributes of success.</div>
<div>I explained to Helen that what she knew is gone.  We put many kids through our nation&#8217;s colleges, but the value has been highly diluted.  There&#8217;s much more competition, and the ends are much more commercialized.  I asked her, &#8220;Would you believe me if I told you I know &#8220;uneducated&#8221; people who make millions?&#8221;  She thought for a second and did believe me.  I also asked, &#8220;Would you believe I know highly educated people who are broke?&#8221;  She nodded affirmatively again.</div>
<div>The fact is that our economy is filled with this situation.  There is no more hiding behind the illusion of a brand.  There actually has to be value.  A college degree does not give someone a pass.  It is a bare minimum.  Anyone who has talent and is willing to work hard can be wildly successful.  People who wait for something to happen and filled with fear suffer the consequences of their desperate existence.</div>
<div>Helen may have felt that I inspired her, but I can assure you she inspired me, and I learned a great deal from her. She held insight and value for us all at the dinner party.  She inspired and communicated the following:</div>
<div>
<ol>
<li><strong>Life Is Short, Don&#8217;t Waste It</strong>:  I asked her if she could remember being 15 like it was yesterday.  She agreed wholeheartedly.  It all went by fast is what she commented on.  I could sense some regrets.  I could also feel the excitement of stories she had where she took risk and the course of boldness in life.  It made her alive.</li>
<li><strong>It&#8217;s Easy To Be Left Behind</strong>:  Helen&#8217;s mind was sharp.  She had certain rituals such as daily calisthenics which helped her live vibrantly.  Even more so, I could see an active mind and one that was willing to grow.  She was determined to live fully and engage life and learning.</li>
<li><strong>Work Hard And Don&#8217;t Let Circumstances Push You Around: </strong>Helen came from Austria as a young girl.  She told me story after story of hard work and tenacity.  She knew life was hard.  Circumstances change and are foreign.  She stepped up to the plate as did many of her friends and family.  They saw opportunity and seized it.  Problems were are a part of life to be overcome.  How different than many who think life is supposed to be easy and someone else&#8217;s problem.</li>
<li><strong>There Is Always A Way</strong>:  Helen reveled in telling stories of how she overcame.  It is part of why she is still alive today late in life.  What zest and optimism about life.  She had experienced and understood that there are always ways to overcome.  As life around us is changing at an unprecedented way, we need to keep this in mind.  It is not the circumstances we need to wish away, it is us who need to become more to meet the challenges.</li>
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<div>Why is all this relevant?  Today, we are living in economic crisis. Companies are struggling with their old ways of doing business not working.  People are realizing they have to reinvent themselves.</div>
<div>One day, you may get lucky to be 84 years old and reflect on the good old days.  I wonder how many will be able to get what life is about like Helen does.  Adversity is an immense opportunity for new business models, new personal growth and new self-discovery.  Fear and a lack of self-confidence will invariably hold you back.  Dare to push into the adversity.  Work backwards from 84.  You will realize one day how fast your life has gone.  Perhaps you can already sense it.  It should be pure motivation to find the opportunities and grow them today.</div>
<div>Don&#8217;t become outdated.  Your marketing likely does not work anymore.  Your selling is old school.  People are not paying attention to you, your company or your message.  This is more true every year.  The only sure thing is to understand the ground beneath you is constantly changing.  Change yourself to meet the challenges.</div>
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